Mirroring the hate blog with comments,
Hopefully Sal/shesalie/mfoyaorphans or Morph/head loon/porn shop lady, as some call her, blog will now disappear. Couldn’t be a luckier day 8-8-08.
Some thoughts on Perving
May 8, 2008
I just don’t get it. I write a blog about perving and the loons come out to attack. I asked them not too, said no nasty comments, but they insisted. The delete button, like the ban button in chat, comes in very handy. I have never deleted anyone’s comments from here as I do believe we all have a right to our opinions. But when asked nicely, to not do so, well.
Perving is just human nature. Very simply, the laws of attraction. As human beings, we are all attracted to different people. How did you fall for your boyfriend/husband? How did you fall for your girlfriend/wife? We are human, animal magnetism is what drives us and keeps the population going. We weren’t meant to not procreate, we weren’t meant to not fall in love. Relationships take work, they take time. When you first meet someone, you are either attracted or not. It might be the eyes, the smile, the body type. It could be anything. We are all unique in what attracts us to the opposite sex. No one is the same. We all have different views on attraction. I like men tall, but I’ve dated many that were not (my first husband being one). Eyes hit me first as does body language. Sure, an attractive person is going to catch your eye. Doesn’t mean you will like that person or end up with them. I’ve gone out with many men who were relatively “unattractive” but they had a great sense of humor, were fun, and very nice. Just because someone is attractive or “hot” doesn’t make them a “nice” person.
In human nature, the initial contact is pure physical. How can it not be? You don’t know that person yet. You see someone and think hmmmmm. We all do it, married or not. It is just who we are. Humans are animals in our own right and sexual magnetism is alive and kicking. Life wouldn’t be much fun without it. I ”perv” over others as well. I meet many gorgeous, hot men daily, entertainers or not. My husband “pervs” over Jessica Alba, so what. It’s the nature of the beast. My dad once told me that “when I stop looking, I’ll be dead”. It’s just who we are. Some people have long-lasting beautiful marriages or relationships. Others find that their initial attraction just didn’t pan out. We search, we all search and when you find your “soul mate” you know it. Believe me, you just do. So I take great insult that I write a “perving” blog about Taylor, and I come under attack. Making people “nauseous”? Come on, get real. All the loons are so obsessed and “attracted” to him, they are like gnats circling a vat of honey. What’s so wrong with that? Nothing, he is an attractive man. He has tremendous charisma. The obsession part is a bit scary, but that goes with the celebrity territory. I’m not obsessed. Not at all. I do find Taylor very attractive, o.k. so what. Who the fuck cares? So do a thousand other women. I know men who appreciate his music, they don’t find him hot. They don’t see the attraction, and rightfully they wouldn’t.
This blog and “Keepin it Real” is about just that. I write what I want to write about. I’m not here for your pleasure. If I want to have fun and play and poke fun at sexy and Thb and others because we all secretly “perv” none of your damn business. Don’t read it. The loons obsession with anything Taylor drives them to insanity. That part is real skeeeerrry. If you want to follow him around the country on tour, go ahead. If you want a million meet and greets and autographs, go for it. Take a thousand pictures, videos, whatever. No one is stopping you. But don’t attack me for finding the guy “hot”. He is. O.k. get the fuck over it. I have a right to my opinion as do you. I’ve never seen him perform, never seen him in person. Don’t really know a damn thing about the guy, but I do enjoy his music and yes I think he is HOT, HOT, HOT (well most of the time). So from now on, do me a favor, if you don’t like what I say, please don’t read what I write. I write about a lot of things, This is not a Taylor fan site. It’s just a blog. My blog. Like it or not, I honestly, could care less. And stop bringing Mfoya into this. He knows I perv, he doesn’t care.
It’s just human nature:
1.Pathology. changed to or being of an unnatural or abnormal kind: a perverted interest in death.
2.turned from what is right; wicked; misguided; distorted.
3.affected with or caused by perversion.